Books can be a beautiful starting point when it comes time for potty training. They reduce anxiety, raise awareness, introduce new language, and give children a script for what’s coming. The right book is about matching your child’s developmental stage, sensory profile, and readiness.
There are a large number of books written for children about toilet training. Below I’ve listed a selection only. Many of these books will be available in your local library and can also be read aloud on YouTube! If you happen to find stories are successful, you may also like to create your own social story regarding toileting, which is unique to your child.
Best for: Children who benefit from simple visuals.
This book uses very clear, uncluttered illustrations and minimal language. For children who are easily overwhelmed visually or who have language delays, this simplicity is helpful.
Best for: Children who are resistant or embarrassed about toileting. This classic normalizes bowel movements in a humorous, low-pressure way.
This can be especially supportive for children with sensory sensitivities around smell, sound, or the feeling of bowel movements.
Best for: Children who love routine and interactive books, as it is a push-and-pull slide book.
Lift-the-flap books increase engagement and can reduce avoidance. They also support sequencing, which is an important executive functioning skill in toileting.
A book can support your child’s cognitive understanding of toileting, but true success depends on physical readiness, emotional regulation, and a sense of safety.
To support this process, parents may find the following resources helpful:
